A sex and relationship expert has revealed the sexual boasting that men say about the bedroom, which is “completely scary”.
In her column for News.com.au, Nadia Bokody said she came across men who show they don’t fight back in the bedroom.
She wrote: “One of the strangest depictions of fragile masculinity I have witnessed to date is the idea that #RealMan means sexual disappointment to women, intentionally.
“I discovered this bizarre belief recently, through frequent protests in the comment sections on TikToks, I joked that guys can’t find a clitoris.
“At first I thought the comments were satire, but as they continued to pile up, I realized they were actually deadly serious.
“These men claim that, in fact, THEY DEFINITELY KNOW EXACTLY WHERE THE CLITORIS IS, MMKAY? But, like, they just don’t care.
“Because ONLY SIMPS CARE ABOUT FEMALE ORGASM, BROTHER! Reciprocally pleasurable sex? Ha! It’s for pussies! ”
She quoted a man as saying, “We all know the right place and it’s not that we can’t find it, we just don’t care.”
Nadia continued: “Sorry … WHAT? !!
“Are we really at a time when caring for people other than ourselves is not masculine?”
The sex expert said it was “ironic” that, although women are labeled “dramatic” and “sensitive” to show emotions, “we condition men to be so frightened of vulnerability, that their own emotions eventually overwhelm in probably far more hyperbolic reactions. ”
She continued: “Perhaps if we expanded the definition of what it means to be a man and make room for a wide range of emotions under the umbrella of masculinity, men could do what they instructed women to do throughout history, and: relax, learn to you’re kidding!
“And while you’re at it, guys, it wouldn’t hurt to laugh from time to time.
“At the very least, learn how to lose in a FIFA game without punching a hole in the drywall.”